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I was reading a blog about advice caregivers give to other caregivers and as I read through the suggestions (all of which rang true,) one connected with me more than all the others—“live in the moment.” “Live in the moment,” is a phrase I’ve heard much of my life in the context of learning to […]
The thermostat in my house is currently registering at 77o Fahrenheit. With all the activity I’ve been involved in today, I’m now sitting here melting at my computer. Meanwhile, Lynn alternates between being hot and cold but mainly stays cold. Before the days of MS, Lynn’s body temperature ran hot. It could be the middle
One Minute He's Hot; the Next He's Cold Read More »
There is a multitude of emotions that play into being a caregiver or being the one with a chronic disease that needs the care. Which emotion takes the front stage on any given day is affected by how you feel, how the other person feels, how much sleep you got the night before and what
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I experienced separation anxiety as a child. I didn’t like to leave home; rarely went to sleep-overs, and seriously considered my college choices based on how close they were to home so I “get” that feeling of longing to be close to someone you love and the slight edge of fear that comes when you
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As I was taking my morning dose of Advil (4 tablets rather than 2), I was curious about my future as a caregiver and what being a caregiver was doing to me personally. So I thought I would look up to see if any research had been done on that topic. The Family Caregiver Alliance
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I usually write my blogs on Saturdays because it’s the only time I don’t immediately have another obligation once I’m freed up from routine caregiving. Today is beautiful outside-the sun is shining, the air is warm, no clouds on the horizon. I see a few bees buzzing around and there are daffodils peeking out of
Finding Time for Normal Read More »
Before Lynn was diagnosed with MS, my experience with the condition was from a distance. I knew of a third cousin with it that family members talked about in sympathetic tones of doom. I had a few encounters with colleagues who had MS and who shared some of their struggles with me when they asked
There’s always a lot of hype that surrounds holidays, and Valentine’s Day is certainly right there keeping pace with all the rest. It’s supposed to be a day to celebrate your love for one another in some special way with gifts, dinner out, and other more intimate ways of expression. I’ve never been overly romantic;
I Like Ours Better Read More »
There’s a lot of talks these days about health care reform and making sure the uninsured have coverage. I don’t want to debate the strengths and weaknesses of the law, but I do want to comment on the struggles associated with having a chronic health condition and how much is not considered when adding up
Personally, I have never been good at exercising. I hate it. I might feel much better if I stayed with it a while but I’m so out of shape that I feel awful doing it. Not so, for Lynn. He has always been good about doing some type of exercise almost every day. The major difference now
My Role as a Physical Therapist Read More »
