This week has had several disappointments. On Thursday and Friday, I was scheduled to take a course in Critical Incident Stress Management for my job. I was really looking forward to it not only for the new information and skills but also for the opportunity to be back with coworkers and others for the day. […]
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On October 11, 1997, Lynn and I got married. As I stood at the entrance to the sanctuary, with my ten-year old escort (my son), my soon to be husband, was playing his guitar and singing me a song that he wrote just for our wedding. The theme of the song was, “you’re
I have had a terrible day, and it’s all due to having to get a new modem to my computer. I truly believe computers can either be your best friend or your worst nightmare, and since about Wednesday; I’ve had it up to my eyeballs in frustration with them. First, on Tuesday, I lost the
Actually, it’s my side. I tried a patient lift, but it didn’t work with Lynn’s wheelchair. I know the one that I would like to get–it’s a modified version of what we used in the hospital–but it’s over $3000 because it’s not provided by our insurance company. So I lift Lynn myself. He now weighs 215 lbs.
As I mentioned in the page called, “Lynn’s story,” he soon became unable to work in his chosen profession as a carpenter after he was diagnosed with MS. He was in his 40s at the time and wanted very much to continue to work. However, his physical limitations and his fatigue made working in a
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For most people, a shower is just a routine part of their day. It takes no more preparation than making sure you have shampoo and soap and clothes to put on afterward. Not so, if the person who needs a shower is in a wheelchair and cannot help themselves. When I first started bathing Lynn,
One of the challenges I face as a caregiver is switching gears in mid-thought. Of course, being a mother certainly helped prepare me for that duty but I always switch reluctantly. I’m the type of person who likes closure. I like to start a project, focus on it, and get it done. Not being able
Lynn has the most awesome memory of anyone I’ve ever known. He is the one you always want on your team for any trivia game. He remembers every little detail about any movie he has ever watched, can tell you what year and the date something happened, and if you think you’re right and he’s
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When we went on vacation, I rented a wheelchair van thanks to the generous gift of one of our church members. IT WAS AWESOME! I was so spoiled by that van. Lynn and I have a 2002 Impala. When we go somewhere, I bodily list my 190 lbs husband from his wheelchair and set him
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Things are pretty much back to normal following Hurricane Irene. I understand that there is another possible hurricane heading toward the Carolinas so we may have more to come. We got our power back at midnight, Wednesday morning. We were very fortunate because my son didn’t get his till the next day and one of our
